In 2015, PFLAG National published on its website a monograph entitled Curriculum Victory in Montgomery County, Maryland: A Case Study and Handbook for Action. It is now housed on the Metro DC PFLAG website in the Resources and Advocacy Work sections. The Curriculum Victory monograph has now been amended to include information through June 24, 2025 and may be found directly here and here.
Tuesday, June 24, 2025
History of LGBTQ+ Progress in the Montgomery County MD Public Schools (MCPS), 2002-2025
Wednesday, June 18, 2025
The Supreme Court's terrible 6-3 decision in United States v. Skrmetti
We need to work toward a society in which people are not so afraid, or ignorant, of differences that they will countenance cruelty to families and children.
Today the U.S. Supreme Court issued its decision in United States v. Skrmetti. The 6-3 decision written by Chief Justice Roberts permits the State of Tennessee to ban the use of medical treatments for transgender adolescents diagnosed with gender dysphoria. This decision essentially tells families of transgender minors (and their physicians) that they must either (1) condemn their children to dangers that have all-to-often led to extreme distress and even suicide or (2) choose exile to states that do not have such laws. And it opens the possibility that if the Republican MAGA majority in the House continues and if the Republican MAGA majority in the Senate dispenses with the filibuster, then such laws could be enacted by the Congress and signed by the President, meaning that such families would have to leave their homes in the United States altogether in order to do right by their children.
This is cruel and unacceptable, as Justice Sotomayor (joined by Justices Jackson and Kagan) explained in her dissent:
Transgender adolescents’ access to hormones and pu-
berty blockers (known as gender-affirming care) is not a
matter of mere cosmetic preference. To the contrary, access
to care can be a question of life or death. Some transgender
adolescents suffer from gender dysphoria, a medical condi-
tion characterized by clinically significant and persistent
distress resulting from incongruence between a person’s
gender identity and sex identified at birth. App. to Pet. for
Cert. 251a–252a. If left untreated, gender dysphoria can
lead to severe anxiety, depression, eating disorders, sub-
stance abuse, self-harm, and suicidality. See, e.g., Cole-
man, 23 Int’l J. Transgender Health, at S62. Suicide, in
particular, is a major concern for parents of transgender
teenagers, as the lifetime prevalence of suicide attempts
among transgender individuals may be as high as 40%.
App. to Pet. for Cert. 264a. Tragically, studies suggest that
as many as one-third of transgender high school students
attempt suicide in any given year.
When provided in appropriate cases, gender-affirming
medical care can meaningfully improve the health and well-
being of transgender adolescents, reducing anxiety, depres-
sion, suicidal ideation, and (for some patients) the need for
more invasive surgical treatments later in life.4 That is why
the American Academy of Pediatrics, American Medical As-
sociation, American Psychiatric Association, American Psy-
chological Association, and American Academy of Child Ad-
olescent Psychiatry all agree that hormones and puberty
blockers are “appropriate and medically necessary” to treat
gender dysphoria when clinically indicated. Id., at 285a.
Tuesday, May 27, 2025
“Say Their Names” and “Thinking about the Unthinkable”
“Say Their Names” and “Thinking about the Unthinkable”
1. The murders of Sarah Milgrim and Yaron Lischinsky
Extremists on all sides target the innocents. And in so doing seek to set in motion more extremism. The 1995 assassination of Rabin by a right-wing Israeli set in motion the events which led to the Second Intifada, which led to more extremism among both Israelis and Palestinians. The barbarous Hamas attack on October 7 set in motion the Israeli killing of thousands of Palestinian children in Gaza and more attacks by settlers on the West Bank. Our challenge is how to stop this downward spiral.
Unlike in earlier eras, now there are people, in our name, doing unspeakable things on a mass level. We - and still I say we - never before had such power. As Albert Einstein (a Zionist himself) noted in 1936, “I believe that the unique durability of the Jewish community is to a large degree based on our geographical dispersion, and the fact that we consequently do not possess instruments of power that will allow us to commit great stupidities out of national fanaticism.” Now “we” have such power, and are abusing it, as Einstein feared.
Of course, none of this justifies the murders of Sarah Milgrim and Yaron Lischinsky. We should say their names. But no one is able to similarly say the names of the thousands of children killed in Gaza. As Stalin is reputed to have said, “One death is a tragedy; a million deaths is a statistic.” But if we are to adhere to the admonition in our tradition that “whoever destroys a single life is considered to have destroyed a world”, we must grapple with the implications of the destruction of thousands of worlds. We must not fall into the trap of the Stalins of this planet.
2. Thinking about the unthinkable
On May 12, 2025, Rabbi Rick Jacobs, President of the Union for Reform Judaism, the largest denomination of Judaism in North America, published an op-ed in the Washington Post entitled I
"I have said on numerous occasions since Oct. 8, I cannot be silent in the face of the immense suffering of civilians in Gaza, including hundreds of thousands of children. Hamas is willing to sacrifice thousands of Palestinians by hoarding humanitarian aid; Israel must not. Depriving Gazans of food and water will not make Israel safer or hasten the return of the hostages. Each of us who loves Israel must say so — and urge Israel to change this policy."
After reading it, I immediately thought about the agonizing question of what we do if the Israeli government does not change this morally suicidal course.
Shortly after publication, Rabbi Jacobs did a fine job on MSNBC discussing his op-ed. I was thrilled that he was getting air-time before thousands, hopefully millions, of people to explain how this major leader of the Reform Jewish Movement is approaching the crises. The more we are able to do this, the better off we will be.
Professor Eddie Glaude, the other guest on the segment, praised Rabbi Jacobs’ wisdom and courage. At 4:44, Professor Glaude then "ask[ed] a basic question. How many dead Palestinians are needed for the State of Israel? What level of mass death is required to satiate your revenge, to feel safe? How many dead babies and children? We have to ask that moral question as we bear witness to what we are seeing."
The segment then went on to a different topic. But Professor Glaude asked the uncomfortable question that came into my mind earlier in the day. An uncomfortable question, but every question involving the current crises is uncomfortable.
I believe that for most of us in the Reform Movement, the question of revenge is not part of the calculus. But the question of how "to feel safe" is. Or, to put it another way, how we weigh our sense of safety alongside our sense of morality. As I thought about this I noticed the picture of James Baldwin in Professor Glaude’s office and remembered Baldwin’s famous statement: "Not everything that is faced can be fixed. But nothing can be fixed if it is not faced."
The apparent green light that the Trump Administration has given the Netanyahu/Ben-Gvir/Smotrich Administration to lay waste to Gaza makes it even more imperative that we face Professor Glaude’s question.
P.S. After writing the last paragraph, I saw the NY Times news analysis from Patrick Kinsley. So now even Trump thinks (or says he thinks) the Netanyahu/Ben-Gvi/Smotrich Administration has become too brutal. When even Trump says that Israel’s government is going too far, we surely need to be unambiguous in our condemnation of its tactics and strategy. Israel needs to reconsider its approach – and not just in a way to put a fig-leaf over what the Netanyahu/Ben-Gvir/Smotrich has made clear is their intent.
P.P.S. And then this on May 28:
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Monday, May 26, 2025
On Matt Bai's column, Graduates speak their minds. Universities freak out. In punishing students who make pro-Palestinian commencement speeches, schools lose their way.
Matt Bai got this right. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2025/05/22/higher-education-gaza-universities-graduation/ If you are blocked by the Post paywall, his column may be read here. As GW's 1969 commencement speaker, my wife and I wrote to the university's president last week making the same point:
Dear President Granberg:
As alumni of The George Washington University (David - BA ’69; Barbara - BA ’71 and MS in Forensic Science ‘75), we are writing to express our disappointment in the statement issued by the University’s Office of Communications and Marketing, apologizing for Cecilia Culver’s student commencement speech and banning her from all GW campuses and events. See https://mediarelations.gwu.edu/statement-ccas-school-ceremony-disruption and https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oE6wK3gB9XM
Both of us have been and continue to be active members of our Jewish community: Barbara is a past president of our synagogue’s sisterhood, and both of us have served on our synagogue’s board of trustees. David is an active member of Jews United for Justice and a recipient of JUFJ’s Heschel Vision Award. https://davidfishback.blogspot.com/2015/12/heschel-vision-award-jews-united-for.html And David is a member of the Commission on Social Action of the Religious Action Center of Reform Judaism. (This letter is written solely in our personal capacities.)
In 1969, David was selected to be student speaker at the GW graduation ceremony. https://davidfishback.blogspot.com/2015/12/student-commencement-speeches-1969.html
Like Ms. Culver, he was given this opportunity because he was respected by University officials. https://economics.columbian.gwu.edu/gw-economics-statistics-double-major-receives-ccas-distinguished-scholar-award
1969 was as fraught a period as the present day. David does not recall whether his speech was pre-cleared or not, but the speech included harsh condemnations of the War in Vietnam and American racism. Specifically, he does vividly recall an incident in the days before the ceremony, when some students, protesting the Vietnam War, had a “grovel-in” in a University office. The protest so offended University officials that they threatened to bar one of the protesters from graduating. David quietly let it be known that, if the protester were barred from graduating, he would refuse to be the commencement speaker. Cooler heads prevailed, and the protester graduated.
With respect to Ms. Culver, the University’s statement makes much of the assertion that Ms. Culver presented a text of her speech for University approval, but then, instead, proceeded to present the discussion of the tragedy in Gaza. We think this misses the point entirely. We looked at the University’s discussions of the Columbian College decision to select Ms. Culver and saw that the University was continuing the tradition of selecting an outstanding scholar and member of the community to be commencement speaker. See https://economics.columbian.gwu.edu/gw-economics-statistics-double-major-receives-ccas-distinguished-scholar-award Having made that selection, it was insulting that the University then felt it needed to “vet” her speech. We are not at all surprised that Ms. Culver determined that showing the speech she intended to give was not a good idea, when, in the past year and a half, the University had shown so much hostility to those who disagreed with the nature and extent of Israel’s military response to Hamas’ barbarism of October 7, 2023.
We, in great sadness, have come to the conclusion that the choices made by the Israeli government have played into the hands of Hamas. While Ms. Culver’s speech was not the speech we would have given, it was within the realm of legitimate discourse in this time of crisis. Whether the killing of tens of thousands of people in the Gaza War comes within the legal definition of “genocide” is not ultimately the point; the amount of death is there for all to see. Indeed, the University official who presided over the ceremony, Associate Dean Kavita Daiya, motioned Ms. Culver back to the podium at the conclusion of the speech and said the following: “Thank you, Cecilia. Here at Columbian College, we represent a variety of views, and we thank you for sharing your words and views.” https://economics.columbian.gwu.edu/gw-economics-statistics-double-major-receives-ccas-distinguished-scholar-award at 3:08.
And that is where it should have ended.
Great universities in open societies do not shrink from discourse on difficult, contentious issues. Dean Daiya provided the opportunity for GW to show itself to be a great university. But the actions described in the Office of Communications and Marketing’s statement squandered that opportunity. We are saddened that our alma mater has chosen mediocrity over greatness.
In the hope that you can do better in the future,
Barbara and David Fishback
Friday, April 18, 2025
"Finding Fellowship" -- Now More Than Ever
https://www.pbs.org/video/finding-fellowship-3bz18O/
Fifteen years later, Bill’s wife Jane excitedly called to tell us about Rob and Reece Scheer and their four adopted children who had joined the Church. Soon after we were invited to volunteer at Fairhaven for the early production and assembly of backpacks for children in foster care – the origin of Comfort Cases, which over the years has become a major force in helping and advocating for children in foster care.
And then, in February 2020, we were thrilled to attend the premier of the film Finding Fellowship, produced by Pearl’s grandson Jason Green and granddaughter Kisha Davis, featuring Pearl and her amazing family, friends, and community at Fairhaven. I wrote about the experience then, concluding that “[now] more than ever, we need to experience this story of belonging.”
With the passing of the matriarch, I was moved to watch the film again. I am even more inspired now than I was five years ago. And we all need it now even more than we did then.
Thank you, Pearl, for your life and your legacy.
Monday, March 31, 2025
More Gaslighting
Thursday, March 27, 2025
Kulanu/Pride Services at Temple Emanuel, 2000 through 2024
Kulanu/Pride Services at Temple Emanuel, 2000 through 2024
Thoughts on watching today's Senate Committee hearing on Antisemitism on campuses
Just finished watching the Senate Committee hearing on antisemitism on campuses. https://www.senate.
Much was said by Republican Senators and the three witnesses they called about what they saw as effective actions taken by the Trump Administration regarding antisemitism. To put the Trump team into perspective, Senator Sanders (at the 1:08:09 point) asked all five of the witnesses if the image on the right in the above picture from the Trump campaign was antisemitic. They ALL agreed it was. (Note: The parallel image on the left, provided by the U.S. Holocaust Museum, was from Hungary in the time leading up to the Holocaust.) This recognition of the Trump team's embrace of antisemitic tropes was utterly ignored by the Republican senators on the Committee.
The testimony of Director-Emeritus of the Religious Action Center of Reform Judaism David Saperstein (beginning at Minute 47) and Director of the Bard Center for the Study of Hate Kenneth Stern (beginning at 53:30) was excellent. They eloquently supported freedom of speech, explaining that that disagreement with the policies of the Israeli government was not itself antisemitism. It was noted that the International Holocaust Remembrance Alliance (IHRA) definition of antisemitism specifically admonished that it not be codified into law. Yet, that admonition is being disregarded by the current Administration and other proponents of the Antisemitism Awareness Act; that proposal not only would enshrine the IHRA definition in law, but would require its use to the exclusion of any other definition of antisemitism. And Mr. Stern -- who was a principal author of the IHRA definition -- also referred to the definition’s misuse, as he has done for years.
In 2021, the Reform Movement recognized the danger that the IHRA definition could be used to shut down free speech. Sadly, these dangers are now being realized. See, for example, this 2022 discussion of a dispute over the definition in Montgomery County MD, citing Mr. Stern’s concerns and describing a dispute over the definition in Montgomery County MD. This dispute resulted in a County Council resolution using the definition – but only with the sorts of caveats many of us in Montgomery County sought. See here. It is this misuse of the IHRA definition by President Trump and others which have caused so much angst recently.
One of the excellent points that came out of the discussion was the disconnect between slashing federal offices charged with enforcing antidiscrimination laws while at the same time insisting that enforcement of charges of antisemitism increase. The Administration plan is clear: Limit investigations to antisemitism and thereby divide the Jewish community from all the other progressive groups whose constituencies will be ignored. This is a divide and conquer strategy. We should vigorously call it out for what it is.
Monday, March 17, 2025
Some thoughts on the ADL
The storied Anti-Defamation League (ADL) has come a long way from the days when Abe Foxman was its executive director. See https://www.adl.org/resources/press-release/adl-condemns-donald-trumps-hate-speech-and-stereotyping While the ADL staff still apparently does good work, cooperation with, and respect for, the ADL has become increasingly problematic due to the public actions of its present executive director, Jonathan Greenblatt.
In the last few years, we have seen Mr. Greenblatt cozy up to and seek to explain away the antisemitism displayed as the highest levels of Donald Trump’s operation. See most recently, for example, https://forward.com/news/700072/adl-tesla-jlens-meta-amazon-musk/ (2/27/25) (“Why the ADL is encouraging Jews to invest [Elon Musk’s] Tesla”) This was published the same day the Union for Reform Judaism and other progressive Jewish organizations announced that they would stop engaging on Musk’s X/Twitter: https://urj.org/press-room/statement-ending-engagement-xtwitter (“As Jewish groups committed to healing what is broken in our world, we aim to do our work through means that similarly foster repair. In study after study, as well as our lived experiences, X has become a platform that promotes hate, antisemitism, and societal division. Under the leadership of Elon Musk, X has reduced content moderation, promoted white supremacists, and re-platformed purveyors of conspiracy theories. Musk himself has re-posted content that is antisemitic and xenophobic, promoting it to his millions of followers.” See also https://www.nbcnews.com/tech/social-media/elon-musk-x-twitter-antisemitism-hashtags-trending-hate-rcna151945 (June 4, 2024) (“Elon Musk's X app ran ads on #whitepower and other hateful hashtags. A review by NBC News found X running ads on 20 racist and antisemitic hashtags more than 18 months after Musk said that he would demonetize hate posts.”)
Just a month earlier, the ADL, per Mr. Greenblatt, sought to excuse or minimize Musk’s public Nazi salute. See https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2025/01/elon-musk-nazi-salute-trump-inauguration-adl-antidefamation-league.html?#rzzz5jix90nlvdauag01begldekr0898(1/21/25) (“It’s Clear Enough What Elon Musk Did. The ADL’s Response Is Pathetic.”) and https://www.nytimes.com/2025/01/20/us/politics/elon-musk-hand-gesture-speech.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare (1/20/25) (“The Anti-Defamation League, which has tangled with Mr. Musk in the past, later said on X that Mr. Musk had ‘made an awkward gesture in a moment of enthusiasm’ and that it was ‘not a Nazi salute.’ The organization added that ‘all sides should give one another a bit of grace.’”)
And this outrage was only ninety days after Mr. Greenblatt sought to minimize the October 24, 2024, Madison Square Garden event that so closely tracked the infamous Nazi at Madison Square Garden in 1939. See https://newrepublic.com/article/187695/anti-defamation-league-running-cover-trump (11/1/24) (“Why is the Anti-Defamation League Running Cover for Trump? Yes, it’s fair to compare Trump’s Madison Square Garden spectacle to the Nazi rally of 1939.”) and https://www.jta.org/2024/10/30/united-states/former-adl-chief-abe-foxman-slams-group-for-muted-response-to-trumps-msg-rally (10/30/24, “Former ADL chief Abe Foxman slams group for muted response to Trump’s MSG rally”)
This was just months after Greenblatt’s ADL honored Trump’s son-in-law at its annual summit. See https://www.timesofisrael.com/adl-honors-jared-kushner-at-annual-summit-despite-pushback-from-some-groups/ (3/7/24) (“ADL honors Jared Kusner at annual summit, despite pushback from some groups.”)